I Slapped Her {feb 28, 2010]

She tested patience today to the max that it snapped. So i not able to control my hand. After pinching her on the shoulders she shouted at me so i have to slap her. I think she just need that at times from me so that she will remember where she should stand in this child-parent relationship. I know my mom is right that maybe am too lenient on her but I am not fan of always nagging her. I want her to grow up responsible so by that she should understand by only telling her once.

I dunno how painful was the slap but the thing was i did it infront of a dormitorian. Many times i have told her never to talk back at me infront of so many people. I even told her attitude to my mom and they have their talk from time to time yet when she is with me she retaliates and rebel although when everything is smooth she is also sweet. But somehow she is always sweet. I dunno how the hardness in her was cultivated. was it caused by the food, television, the movie she is watching, or her friends. I really dunno.

I wonder if there are also moms out there who is having some problems right now with their children especially the rebel ones. I wonder how they cope with it.

Friday Photo Flashback #4

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This is me and my daughter 5 years ago. Made of a digital shot but can still be called an "old" photo, so am using it for this week's FPF. Both of us are going to school. Me, first year in nursing as second courser and was in the 2nd grade.

Currently, i stopped nursing school 4 years ago to concentrate working here in the college where am suppose to enroll at, and Dimple is now in the 6th grade.

Third Grading Grades AY 2009-2010

Bible - 97

English - 97

Filipino - 95

Mathematics - 95

Science & Health - 97

Makabayan - 95

Geography/History - 98

MSEP - 97

Computer Education - 92

GMRC - 93

Some went up and some went down 2 points but it's ok. I just encouraged her to make better the last grading because who knows she will get the second place in her class. And with that we can get some tuition discounts if ever she can attend MMA.

Getting of Cards

It's getting of cards now but sad to note that i did not catch up the teacher. The teachers left so early. I did some errands first before proceeding to their school, but the teachers were out already. So i can see her third grading report card on Monday yet.

I felt relieved at the moment because as of today, I paid up all her school bills for AY 2009-2010. Paid up too her seniors fee. We will just all wait for the closing exercises as well as continue saving up for her entrance fee comes June.

Which school? I am not yet sure. But probably, she will just be here in Iligan. How i wish this paternity issue is already over and she is acknowledged. Am sure can be able to attend school at MMA.

Friday Photo Flashback #3

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This is an old photo me. I think am 10 years old here and this was taken after a Church afternoon program. Am the one in blue dress. I really forgot what was my part but it looks like we are having a CHILDREN AROUND THE WORLD program.

That is my sister, 2nd to the last standing girl in yellow. Am 37 now so it means this was taken 27 years ago. :)